The average kissing number in ℝn is the supremum of the average degrees of contact graphs of packings of finitely many balls (of any radii) in ℝn. We provide an upper bound for the average kissing number based on semidefinite programming that improves previous bounds in dimensions 3,.., 9. A very simple upper bound for the average kissing number is twice the kissing number; in dimensions 6,.., 9 our new bound is the first to improve on this simple upper bound.